Sunday scaries… time to think about leaving
If you are reading Career Counseling Connecticut’s blog on a Sunday or a Monday, then you know what I mean….
Sometime around mid-day, you will start to feel a creeping anxiety or an enhanced state of melancholy. You should be enjoying your weekend. But subconscious thoughts about work are sliding into your conscious mind.
I know. I was there for many years during my legal career. Seems like ancient history since it was turn of the century but I remember the feeling as if it were yesterday. It was quite profound.
Indeed, I have a bizarre memory of JFK Jr.’s plane crash. (Just checked – July 16, 1999). I was at a cool outdoor market in Stony Creek (Branford CT). Trying to bolster my mood, I reminded myself to be grateful for life. Good self-coaching. But I also thought: if I have to feel grateful that I wasn’t in a plane crash in an effort to make myself feel better about going to work the next day, then I really should change my work!
I think this work has become such a passion for me because of my own story. I was a lawyer. Not only “a lawyer” since I practiced but someone who told people I would be a lawyer since around the age of 8. No joke. My parents and other adults seemed to nod with approval. Moreover, in broad strokes, someone who “wanted to make a difference”, was verbal and liked school… law also made sense until it didn’t! Public service law was great for me. Private practice was not.
When I built Career Counseling Connecticut, it was a side project. The Learning Consultants was my main company. That it grew without marketing – other than this blog has been the result of my deep commitment to help others and word of mouth from those who escaped the Sunday blues.
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