I see this all the time in my career counseling work. Many of my clients sell themselves short. They lack confidence. They think everyone else knows what to do with their careers. They believe that they are falling behind. Not true! Part of my work involves inspiring my clients. This energy shift is necessary for career change.
Here’s why: if you are transitioning from one career path to another, you need confidence to travel into the unknown. I’ve been immersed in watching Mankind: The Story of All of Us on the History Channel. Those explorers were all pretty damn confident. Imagine getting on a boat to travel into the vast ocean without knowing when you would hit land? Switching career paths can seem similar. The unknown is scary. We are hard wired to seek out security. That’s generally good as it keeps most sane people from heading out into the Atlantic Ocean without distinct knowledge of their destination. But if we were all so “sane”, America would never have been discovered. And, if you remain skittish about heading into a new path, you’ll stay in your current path forever (or until forced out). That seems less sane to me if you are currently unhappy in your work.