I live in Shoreline, Connecticut. For that reason, I meet many residents of other Connecticut towns who are on vacation. When we talk about their work, jobs, or careers, most seem to have one thing in common: they get annoyed by work interruptions during vacation and dread going back to work after vacation.
I remember that feeling. I also remember feeling that part of my vacation was affected by my work. Those in the knowledge economy feel obliged to “check-in”. Clients, vendors, and customers usually don’t know you are on vacation. Even with a vacation message, some will leave a request anyway. Bosses and co-workers know you are on vacation. But, some will call: “I know you are on vacation, but…”.
Back in those days (almost 15 years ago!), my vacations were slightly soured every time I had to check my messages. Far worse, I would feel slightly depressed and highly anxious as vacation ended knowing that I was going back to work that was ill suited for me.
I’m on vacation now. I check my messages regularly but not with annoyance but with some gratitude. (those running their own company will understand what I mean!)
Sundays were worse.
Around midday, I would feel something in my stomach.
Some sense of anxiety.
I learned this was common among lawyers.
Then I learned this feeling – Sunday Scaries – had a name that was pervasive across many jobs.
I don’t have that anymore. Nor do many of Career Counseling Connecticut’s clients.
If you like your work… why would you?